If a thesaurus was honest, the first
synonym you’d see for “mother” would be “busy.” Between
home, work, school, and everything else life throws at you, your
average mom can totally forget to take time for herself—not good!
Self-care is not only important for your own well-being, it’s
important for the overall function of your family. These seven little
ways you can incorporate self-care into your life are not only
simple, but they’re inexpensive—so no excuse!
- Schedule that doctor’s appointment you’ve been putting off.
Or dentist, or
dermatologist, or eye doctor… You know you do it! When we talk
about “self-care” the things that come to mind are normally
the enjoyable ones (get a manicure, meditate, cook a healthy meal…)
But sometimes, self-care means doing the things you’re not as
excited about. Sure, nobody likes seeing the OB-GYN for their annual
checkup, but you need to do it. Getting the appointment made is half the battle.
- Re-read your favorite book
If you’re like
me, you probably chastise yourself at least once a week for not
reading enough. I find that the problem isn’t that I don’t like
reading, it’s that the material I select isn’t captivating enough
to not make me want to put it down. Fall in love with reading again
by revisiting your favorite book. Find comfort in its familiar
phrases and get back into the habit of turning a few pages a day.
- Go outside
If the day is
nice, take the kids outside for a little sunshine. Instead of seeing
the time as a chore, practice mindfulness and appreciate everything
your senses experience. Are the leaves changing? Can you smell the
smoke from a neighbor lighting their fireplace for the first time?
Taking the time to be in the moment will help you feel more centered
and appreciative of what you have.
- Write a letter to a loved one
Not an email—an
old-fashioned, hand written letter! We so often forget how connecting
with our roots makes us more grounded (pun intended.) By reaching
out—and showing how much you care by taking the time to actually
write and mail a letter—you’re reestablishing a bond and helping
strengthen your emotional network.
- Do a light, at-home work out
I know, who has
the time to go to the gym? Instead of beating yourself up for missing
your yoga class (again), take 15-30 minutes to yourself while the
kids are watching TV to do a simple home workout that will get your
body moving. I like to find easy, free YouTube tutorials (check out
the options on the
Fabletics YouTube channel) so I’m constantly changing it up and
challenging myself.
- Start a rainy-day fund
This is the
opposite of an expense! I think it’s pretty obvious that saving
money is a great way to provide yourself with self-care, so why are
you putting it off? It can be as simple as dropping your extra change
into a jar or you can download a finance app to calculate how much
you can afford to set aside a month for your Roth IRA. Large or
small, saving money in any amount is smart.
Do you really need
that cocktail dress you wore once hanging in your closet nowadays?
Are those leggings worn out in more than one place? Give your closet
a quick purge and you’ll be more inspired by the things you hold on
to. Donate your old duds or set up a clothing swap with some of your
friends. You may clean your home every day—but this is time
dedicated to YOUR space.
Disclosure: This is a guest post.
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